Listening

After hearing what she said, I realised some of the actions described are applicable to me as well.

I don't want to make use of anyone but sometimes, it can really be described as that. It shouldn't have come as a surprise to me when he raised his voice at me after I've asked him questions.

I feel sick to my stomach at my own behaviour. Because I really recognise some of it as my own. If people are commenting such stuff, what are they commenting on me..

Listening's not that bad after all. You could always pick up mistakes that others have committed and try to avoid the same fallacy. But now is I have to find the patience to do that.
And to listen attentively, instead of one ear in, the other out.